Momma, I am a big girl now and I can do *it* myself.
Insert anything at *it*.
Including eating with a spoon.
I tried to get Eleanor to eat with a spoon in January. She threw a fit. A complete meltdown ensued.
It was just as well, because I discovered that I usually didn't have (take) the time to let her eat with a utensil....it was a long process to say the least.
But, I discovered she ate with a spoon at daycare. After the before-mentioned meltdown, I was browsing pictures from her classroom's website and found a cute little series of Eleanor using a spoon for her breakfast yogurt, smiling away at the camera.
So she duped me. She wanted momma to feed her at home. But she could do it herself at school.
Not any longer.
She does it herself at home and at school now. Eleanor refuses all food - with a big shake of her head - being fed to her by someone else. In other words, anything coming to her face on a spoon that she is not holding gets a big 'ol N-O. (Even though there is a little smirk on her face with that N-O.)
I was in for a sweet surprise last week, though. I allowed her to use a spoon. She fed herself an entire container of yogurt in no time at all, and very little missed her mouth. What a big girl! It's so amazing - I never thought I would consider eating with a spoon to be such a milestone.



